Build Confidence

Do You Want to Build  or Rebuild Your Confidence?

A lack of confidence is one of the most common problems that I encounter. For some it is mild and may hold a person back in their career perhaps, but in so many cases it can be so severe that the person concerned is almost unable to function in their day to day life. They can find themselves having trouble building relationships, holding down a job, even taking care of their own wellbeing.

The cause of a lack of confidence is not always obvious. It can be caused by depression and it is wise to talk to your GP to see if they can offer some help as a first step. But often it can be due to childhood experiences, perhaps being told how you will never amount to anything, or your siblings or classmates are 'better' than you, or you are told they are. Or it can happen later in life when a controlling or abusive partner can start to take over your life, controlling what you do and eventually even what you think. I have, sadly, met many people who have got themselves into such a relationship. It starts off innocently, the partner is always helpful, always there. But then they start to monitor what you are doing, who your friends are. They criticise almost everything you do, often in very subtle ways so you don't realise it is happening until eventually you just do what you are told and accept you are useless. A terrible state to get into but one which you can escape from.

Over the years, I have helped young and old overcome this lack of confidence, and in every case, they have gone on to lead a fuller and mentally healthier life. This could easily be you as well.

How can hypnotherapy help?

Consciously, you know you are worthy. That you deserve better. But your subconscious has the idea (wrongly placed there by someone or people in your past) that you are useless, so it keeps telling you that you are not good enough and try as you might, it remains in control and you remain sad and unworthy. Hypnotherapy, though, allows you to relax to the point where your conscious mind can correct the errors in your subconscious mind, and your confidence and self-worth returns.

If you feel your self-worth needs a boost, then please book a free, online introductory chat. There is no obligation to book a session.
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